Anxiety and worry have many interchangeable factors surrounding discomfort and unease, it can all be quite confusing. But what are the fundamental differences, and how can we distinguish them in ourselves?
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Now, on with the article…
What is worry?
Humans, as the intelligent beings we are, possess the power to think ahead and imagine our futures. This can be very useful for planning, organising and preparing. But, like many things, inordinate thinking ahead can feel overwhelming, and cause excessive worrying…
‘Worry is a chain of thoughts and images, negatively affect-laden and relatively uncontrollable. It represents an attempt to engage in mental problem-solving on an issue whose outcome is uncertain but contains the possibility of one or more negative outcomes. Consequently, worry relates closely to the fear process.’(Borkovec, Robinson, Pruzinsky and DePree, 1983)
We all experience worry sometimes. Life can be stressful, right? And subsequently, a bit of worrying is inevitable. But why do we worry about things that might never happen?
Our minds have a negative bias causing us to jump to the worst outcome. Essentially, this negative bias happens because humans are impacted more by negative situations; They learn more deeply from them and remember them more than positive situations.
There are Two Different Types of Worry:
These worries address real problems that need resolving. In this instance, worry can be useful in helping us to address issues and get sorted.
Also known as catastrophising. Hypothetical worries are unlikely worst case, negative future scenarios. These types of worries can be most detrimental, and lead to spiralling.
What is Anxiety?
Anxiety is feelings of stress and worry that are intense, affecting us physically and mentally. It might create feelings of dread, make you feel irritable or detached from the world and friends and family.
Severe anxiety might be classed as an anxiety disorder.
There are different types of anxiety disorders:
- Generalised Anxiety Disorder
- Social Anxiety Disorder
- Panic Disorder
- PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
- BDD – Body Dysmorphic Disorder
- OCD – Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
- Perinatal anxiety or perinatal OCD
- Health Anxiety
There is also an emerging eco-anxiety affecting people due to climate change.
Anxiety disorders impair function and get in the way of your day-to-day life. The main warning sign of an anxiety disorder is excessive and uncontrollable worrying. Particularly, worrying about unlikely hypothetical situations or very specific things. If you are concerned that you or a loved one are displaying symptoms of an anxiety disorder, contact your GP.
So, What’s the Difference Between Worry and Anxiety?
- Worry is a rational response to life, and anxiety is irrational. Having worries is a normal fight or flight response that encourages you to resolve issues, act with urgency or protect yourself.
- Worry resides mostly in the brain, whereas anxiety manifests itself more physically. The stress hormones, such as cortisol, can cause symptoms such as shakiness, breathlessness, nausea, headaches, body aches, sweating etc. Excessive worrying can cause headaches and stomach-ache. Hence the saying ‘I’m worried sick!’ But anxiety symptoms present themselves much more severely and regularly.
Anxiety compromise’s ability to function, worry does not.
Ways to Manage Worry and Anxiety at Home
Create a worry tree
his is a great way to guide yourself through the worry and come to a realistic outcome about what you can and can’t do in that moment. It is a structure that, once practiced enough, can be used in the mind to work through worries on the go!